He's sweating profusely, anxiety ridden, quick to snap, achy, not sleeping etc.
Good lord, it sounds exactly like menopause! OK, it sounds exactly like MY menopause, except I was/am enjoying hot flashes also.
I think I realize what my husband has gone through now.
I don't mean to be flip, but addicts don't have the corner on going through a crappy physical adjustment. We still deserve to be treated with respect whether they feel icky or not.
making it about me and not him
It is about you! And this program, Nar-Anon, is about you. Don't feel bad for taking care of yourself and making good decisions for yourself. Yourself is all you can control.
I'm glad you're here. I've found a lot of wisdom on this board and in the other rooms of Nar-Anon.